Category: African-American

  • Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche Teaches Us How To ‘Vote With Our Money’

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    LISTEN to The Budgetnista’s episode of ESSENCE Podcast Network’s UnBossed Podcast here:

    (No) thanks to social media accessibility, there are plenty of people asserting themselves to be experts on a range of topics with absolutely no receipts. But don’t worry, that’s not even how The Budgetnista rolls. For more than a decade, the New Jersey native, Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche has been teaching financial literacy with a lesson plan spliced together from her own life.

    From getting scammed out of $35,000 to losing her first home to foreclosure to almost being pushed to the background of the business she created, Aliche’s life is module after module on how to triumph in the face of defeat.

    She has built a series of businesses to guide women on their journey toward financial freedom (and confidence), one of which, the Live Richer Academyboasts 40,000 students and garners eight figures annually! Yes, EIGHT figures.

    With such a massive following and

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  • 21 Powerful Images Of Black Fathers In Action

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    Black fathers are there when we need them. They lift us up, dry our tears, and make us feel seen when the world tries to tear us down.

    Despite the terrible myth that Black fathers aren’t showing up, studies confirm the opposite is true. A study conducted by the CDC found that Black dads were most likely to play an active role in the household than white and Hispanic men by bathing, dressing, diapering, or helping potty train their children daily.

    In the midst of his tragic passing, the late Kobe Bryant’s legacy reminded us just how important Black fathers are to the community. After ESPN sports anchor Elle Duncan shared an emotional story about Bryant proudly proclaiming to be a “girl dad,” the movement took off and fathers everywhere embraced the beauty having daughters like we’d never seen before.

    The powerful images below are only further proof that our Black kings are thriving and being the best dads they can be. Whether their celebrities balancing the demands of Hollywood with parenting, or just every fellas making an impact in the community, these photos of Black fathers in action will warm your heart.

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  • Meet These 75 Black-Owned Beauty Brand Founders

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    It’s great to see publications across the country promoting Black-owned beauty brands as ESSENCE has been doing for the past 70 years. While it’s unfortunate that their tenacity came only after the murders of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Breonna Taylor, we’re hoping that touting Black beauty businesses as the best will not be a trend, like promoting Black beauty on Black people has been.

    So we want to introduce the people behind several Black-owned beauty brands, because that’s truly what’s important here. From kitchen chemists to beauty industry insiders, these men and women created their brands when no one else catered to our needs. They get up everyday and hustle hard for the community and beyond. Their businesses are fueled by love and run on passion (and, of course, kick-ass teams).

    When the protests end and if the movement proves to have simply been a moment, these entrepreneurs will still be here. So while shopping Black-owned beauty might only be on trend today, we hope that seeing the actual people who founded these brands will make supporting Black businesses timeless.

    Editor’s Note: There are several Black-owned beauty brands and we regret that we could not include them all, and their founders, in this list. ESSENCE will continue to promote Black-owned beauty brands and entrepreneurs creating quality products year-round.

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  • Why Tammy Franklin Is Truly Hubby Kirk Franklin’s Biggest Fan

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    Listen to Kirk and Tammy Franklin’s full episode of ESSENCE Podcast Network’s Yes, Girl! Podcast here:

    The world cannot get enough of The Franklins. Just check Instagram on any given week and you’ll find reposts of their hilarious family moments, including their epic Mother’s Day remix of the Savage challenged and cute testimonials from when they were dating. Everyone wants to know what makes them work so well. And if the latest episode of Yes, Girl! podcast is any indication, Kirk and Tammy Franklin’s relationship is as beautiful as it is because they keep the communication flowing.

    The couple joins Yes, Girl! hosts Cori Murray and Charli Penn for a side-splitting, inspiring and sobering conversation about everything from how we’re all trying to wrestle with our doubts and anxieties to why Tammy appreciates her husband’s musical process.

    “Although I’m a wife, I am a fan. There’s songs that he’s written years ago I forget. I know he did it, but I forget. Oh my gosh, like ‘Now Behold the Lamb.’ Every time I hear it, I’m a wreck. I’m like, that’s right, my man wrote that,” Tammy muses.

    Kirk and Tammy FranklinATLANTA, GEORGIA – OCTOBER 05: Kirk Franklin and Tammy Collins attend Tyler Perry Studios grand opening gala at Tyler Perry Studios on October 05, 2019 in Atlanta, Georgia. (Photo by Paras Griffin/Getty Images for Tyler Perry Studios)

    Though their love story began over 25 years ago, the foundation remains solid as a rock.

    “My love for Tammy is really rooted deeper in my love for Christ,” reveals Franklin. “And so my love for God has to be reflected in my love for her just because I am very clear that God’s hand and God’s grace flows through her. That all the great things in my life are a conduit of her life with me, and so that is how I view every aspect of my life.”

    Are you swooning yet?

    You won’t want to miss a single second of this episode as The Franklins give us a hilarious and inspiring story time discussing :

    …HOW OUR FAITH ISN’T ALWAYS PERFECT

    “I think the biggest thing that hasn’t been said from behind the pulpits of our faith-based communities, and even from people that have the microphone at times in the faith-based community is that we don’t share enough how damaged our faith can be. That lot of times, it looks like that we are people that live in rainbows and flowers, and that is a great mistake.”

    …HOW KIRK’S CROSS COLORS (AND HONESTY) WON TAMMY OVER

    “I’m thinking okay, you did all this to met me. And he was fully dressed in cross colors. Now, everybody else has on swimming suits, so I’m like why do you have on Cross Colors? Why are you fully clothed? And he says to me I’m a minister of music and I’m just leaving choir rehearsal. Well, that stuck out to me…”

    …THE DIFFICULTY IN CELEBRATING JUNETEENTH THIS YEAR

    “Listen, no cap. I’m telling you, if they keep taking the lives of my brothers, I may be in these streets trying to rally a march or something. I’m serious. Right now, I’m thinking of tangible things to be able to show my unity and support, so I could be in the streets with men and women of whatever diverse backgrounds that believe that something’s got to change because the climate is very difficult to celebrate in right now.”

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  • Our Culture Is “Ghetto” Until Proven Fashionable

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    Throughout popular culture, we often see trends created by Black women, usually deemed ghetto, co-opted by white women, and filtered into the mainstream. From gold nameplate necklaces to long acrylic nails and extended braids and ponytails — Black women are the blueprint. White women have been able to adopt these trends as their own without acknowledging the true tastemakers, all while maintaining their distance from Blackness and the very environments that birthed these trends.

    On June 8th a screenshot resurfaced of Sondreanna Huff, a Black woman from Pensacola, Florida, who went live on Facebook wearing bright pink braids and matching strip eyelashes. During the live video, a number of critical comments rolled in, essentially calling her look “ghetto.” However, in February 2020 Allure featured the latest makeup trend — colored falsies. While we’re unable to pinpoint the first person who wore a colorful lash, it does speak to an existing problem, many aesthetics donned by Black women are often seen as ghetto until proven fashionable.

    Her name is Shondreanna Huff she lives in Pensacola Florida. Her Facebook name is Savanchi Lavanchi. She got every influencer wearing them lashes after y’all bullied her for wearing them. Run her a check. https://t.co/aAjHVQB32i

    — STAY OUTTA BLACK PPL BUSINESS (@internetdolI) June 8, 2020

    Designer and fashion activist Nareasha Willis took notice of the problem, being a Black girl from the hood, and used her designs to amplify the message. “I started using the phrase as a hashtag in 2016 for photoshoots I directed. It was my way of expressing the direction I always went in. I was honestly tired of people being surprised I was from the ghetto as if I was supposed to walk, talk, and act a certain way. “The fashion industry referring to Black people as “ghetto” to later capitalize on it when a white woman does it is hypocritical, to say the least,” she says. Willis has gone on to release a line of loungewear with statements such as “Ghetto Until Proven Fashionable”, “Black Before It Was Fashionable”, and “You Can’t Have The Culture Without The Struggle” — phrases that spoke to the experience of Black people.

    GUPF Signature Hoodie, $77

    In wake of the protests, Willis’ phrase has been radicalized. Amongst a sea of signs, one read “Ghetto Until Proven Fashionable”. And while it seems that the hijacking of fashion and beauty trends are on a much smaller scale in comparison, it continues to speak to the erasure of Black lives. Over the last few days it has been apparent that Black voices continue to be drowned out, as many Black women and men in media shared their truths about working for publications and facing corporate oppression. As they worked hard to amplify Black stories, these individuals detailed that they have ultimately been reprimanded and silenced.

    Fashion writer, Channing Hargrove spoke of her experience with Refinery29, stating that an executive asked her to issue an apology for questioning why white women were suddenly wearing so much gold, a trend that was also deemed ghetto previously. She referenced an episode of Sex In The City, in which Carrie Bradshaw said “Yeah, ghetto gold for fun!” in response to Charlotte’s puzzlement of Carrie being disgusted by potentially receiving a gold engagement ring.

    Over the last few days it has been apparent that Black voices continue to be drowned out, as many Black women and men in media shared their truths about working for publications and facing corporate oppression, as they worked much harder to amplify Black stories, to ultimately be reprimanded and silence. Fashion writer, Channing Hargrove spoke of her experience with Refinery29, stating that an executive asked her to issue an apology for questioning why white women were suddenly wearing so much gold, a trend that was also deemed ghetto previously. She referenced an episode of Sex In The City, in which Carrie Bradshaw said ““Yeah, ghetto gold for fun!” in response to Charlotte’s puzzlement of Carrie being disgusted by potentially receiving a gold engagement ring.

    I will never forget the EIC asking me to write an apology piece to white women for writing about them appropriating gold chains after my article went viral.

    — Channing Hargrove (@chan_inthecity) June 3, 2020

    That’s the thing, being “ghetto” is not some singular moment in time to birth temporary fads. The creativity and innovation of growing up in the hood is ingrained in Black culture. As writer Nezarial Scott put it in a 2017 article written for Flare, “Ghetto is nothing but creativity that hasn’t been stolen yet, we see you stealing and regurgitating our struggle for profit, but we’re here to take it all back — in all ways.”

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  • 9 Grilling Gifts To Give Your Dad This Father’s Day

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    The word grilling is almost synonymous with dads. 

    With more time spent at home and grill season in full swing, it’s the perfect time for more backyard barbeques — while being safe of course.

    Looking for recommendations on what to get your grilling dad who has everything? If your Dad is the BBQ loving type, then you can’t go wrong with personalized Father’s Day gifts for men who know their way around a barbeque. Not to mention, the best gifts are those that you know they’ll actually use. Here are a few ideas to get summer (and Father’s Day) off to a great start — for him and the whole family.

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  • 16 Photos Of The Wayans Family

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    The Wayans Family is finally getting their roses thanks to a viral sketch.

    When a video clip of Terrence J “arguing” with Marlon Wayans circulated on Thursday, many eyebrows were raised as the former 106 & Park host claimed the comedian and producer was only successful due to his famous family.

    Terrence quickly defended himself, saying it was all jokes. In fact, the actor claimed Wayans wrote the sketch, called “What Haters Say,” himself for a parody comedy show called, The Awful Truth.

    Still, it had us over at ESSENCE thinking that it was about time that the Wayans family got their roses. Not only did they create hilarious iconic sketch shows such as In Living Color, birthing the careers of Jamie Foxx, Jennifer Lopez and Jim Carrey, but they’ve also created films we love such as White Chicks, My Wife And Kids and the Scary Movie franchise.

    So here’s to you Chaunté, Kim, Marlon, Damon Wayans Sr., Keenen Ivory Wayans and Shawn Wayans. And we can’t forget the second generation of greatness!

    To remember all of the amazing things this family has done for the culture, here are 16 photos celebrating their greatness.

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  • Aloe Blacc Partners With Music Unites To Send Off Compton Class 2020

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    Singer Aloe Blacc worked with children from Compton’s Centennial High School to record a custom rendition of his hit “Wake Me Up,” in tribute to the class of 2020. The inspirational virtual performance will be played for all schools and students across Compton, California as their official graduation song. The video features touching footage from pep rallies, football games and Zoom calls that made up their senior year. 

    This isn’t Blacc’s first connection with the students. 

    In November, he was previously brought in to speak to classes through Music Unites, a non-profit that provides musical education programs in partnership with school systems in New York, Los Angeles and Chicago. Their mission is to empower students through the arts. 

    “With over a decade of history working with the Compton Unified School district, we felt it was essential to do something special for our students during this life-changing moment with graduation. We brought Aloe Blacc to do a Music-Versity at Centennial last fall and saw how transformative his session was with the students as he inspired them through sharing his journey as an artist and shared his powerful music,” says Michelle Edgar, founder & executive director of Music Unites. 

    “He has been a true ambassador inspiring youth through the power of music and is always looking to push boundaries through innovation and technology. We appreciate his commitment to Music Unites and our students as he is a role model and inspiration to us all,” she continues. “Due to the Coronavirus pandemic and stay-at-home protocols, the class of 2020 missed out on the celebrations that we all remember from our high school graduation and we wanted to provide students with this virtual video we created for them to remember and be a source of inspiration in their journey.” 

    Music Unites has assembled and developed choirs, and provided instruction in instrumental musicianship, and beat production for years. They sponsor supplemental field trips, curate and produce panels, host workshops, teach master classes and give other special opportunities to students. They have also paired students with mentors and allowed them to learn one-on-one in intimate sessions with experienced professionals including Swizz Beatz and Melanie Fiona. 

    In the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic they have turned their attention to increasing access to information about the variety of careers in the music industry that exist outside of the booth through their Music-Veristy digital series. 

    Their Music Unites Summer Virtual Academy will kick off in July. 

    Their efforts are preparing students for an industry that is inching towards becoming more inclusive on the stage and in the boardroom. Over the last few days, it’s been announced that radio stations and the Recording Academy will lift the marginalizing term “urban” from art and awards categories and publishing companies and record labels are beginning to make meaningful donations to proactive social justice organizations.  

    “The CUSD has helped us scale across a handful of schools in their district through our after-school music programs and prioritized bringing top-level teaching instruction along with renowned artists and industry leaders to provide students with Music-Versity workshops to provide students once in a lifetime opportunities and inspire the next generation of young leaders,” says Edgar

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  • Kandi Burruss On Speaking With Her Four-Year-Old Son Ace About Police Brutality

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    Given the times we’re living in, plenty of us are having difficult but necessary conversations with our kids about racism and police brutality. Real Housewives Of Atlanta star Kandi Burruss recently joined “Watch What Happens Live” alongside talk show host Tamron Hall to talk about how her children are dealing with the racial tension in America right now.

    Burruss says her 17-year-old daughter Riley, who is headed to New York University in the fall, took a bold stance by unfollowing all of her non-Black friends on social media who failed to post anything supporting the Black Lives Matter movement. “[Riley] made it like a movement through her whole friend group,” Burruss explained. “If she did not see some type of statement or [them] show that you care, she was unfollowing you and she was serious about it.”

    Burruss then said its a much different scenario with her four-year-old son Ace, who dressed up as a police officer for his career day at school. At his young age, Ace doesn’t quite understand all that’s going on amid the protests for George Floyd, and asked her, “so, the police are the bad guys?”

    Burruss fought back tears as she explains how painful it is to explain this to her young son. “Isn’t that crazy to have to explain that to a 4-year-old? For you to be Black and have to worry about the police being the bad guys?” the reality star said. “I know y’all say I cry all the time, but that’s an emotional thing for me.”

    Burruss husband and Ace’s father Todd Tucker recently shared a photo of Ace dressed in a super cute police uniform, along with the hurt he feels having to share such a harsh reality with his son.

    “It was so hard explaining to him that the police can also be the bad guys,” Tucker said. “He was so confused. And I’m still working on explaining to him the horrific acts of the police. We must have honest conversations with our children and prepare them.”

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    I haven’t been very vocal lately as my heart has been hurting. My son was a police officer for his career day last year. We were watching the news and he asked me “the police are bad guys?” With a puzzled look. It was so hard explaining to him that the police can also be the bad guys. He was so confused. And I’m still working on explaining to him the horrific acts of the police. We must have honest conversations with our children and prepare them.

    A post shared by Todd Tucker (@todd167) on Jun 9, 2020 at 8:33am PDT

    Kandi and Todd aren’t the only celebrity parents who have spoken out about the fears of raising Black children in a racist society. Ciara, La La Anthony, Kevin Hart and Victor Cruz are just some of the famous parents who have expressed how difficult its been having tough conversations with their kids about race and the worry that goes along with it.

    Hopefully, the work we’re doing on the front lines to fight systemic racism will lead to a better future for our young ones.

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