I’m Grateful To Get Older, Fit My Own Beauty Standards And Create Definitions Of Masculinity

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By Larry Stansbury ·Updated March 13, 2024

“You’re not masculine enough,” a black man said to me. He stared at my french manicure. While I sat there at this guy’s apartment, having a conversation with a man that I almost gave my goodies to, he insulted me in ways I didn’t acknowledge myself. 

At almost five minutes to 10 PM, he asked me to leave and wished me the best. As I drove

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